What comes in our mind when we listen word "separation"? May be some of us imagine a sad face, may be some will imagine a scared face or may be some will imagine a face filled with regrets. Why is it that almost all the emotions we imagined come under the umbrella of negative emotions? Only and straightforward answer is "because separations are negative".
Today i don't want to talk about what separation is , how you should react and how to overcome it. Today i want to talk about few things going on in our society which really hurt me. Our generation needs to analyse their thought processes. It's a high need of hour.
Don't you all think that we have stopped respecting our connections. We have limited our life's quality in certain parameters. I want to give a scenario(fictional) here in hope that being non judgemental you will read this and will give a thought to whatever is being said.
There was a boy and a girl. They were childhood friends. With time they started having feelings for each other and finally after 6 or 7 years of friendship they finally come in relationship. Now after 1.5 or 2 years of relationship they figured out that things are not working out. So they decided to breakup.After breakup they never talked with each other again. They blocked each other on social media. Zero connections and zero interaction. Both are busy in their life.
As we have read the scenario, I again hope you are going to read further things without having any personal judgements.
So, now the main thing i wanted to talk about is are we really respecting our connections? Are we really respecting our memories?
In above scenario what we see or i can say sad part is just because your relationship didn't work you break all your relations with each other. Is this thing even justified. For those bad experiences of 1 or 2 years how can we spoil the beautiful friendship of 6 to 7 years. How can we forget that other than the relationship there was some bond and connection. I don't know why we have become so intolerant that we forget that there is much more in life. I am not compelling anyone to continue with the relationship but i want us to respect the beauty of connections. There is much more than a relationship.
It's high time that we all understand that only we can make this world a better place. No one is going to get anything with the grudges and ego. Let's just forgive everyone whoever it may be. Let's start cherishing whatever we have. Let's keep our egos aside. Let's start respecting all those who have been part of our life and are a part of our memories. Let's be thankful to everyone for making our moments beautiful by their presence. And let's be sorry to everyone who we intentionally or unintentionally hurt ever.
Let's make this world a better place!
KYOKI KYA PATA KAL HO NA HO!
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