I had an epiphany going on in my head for a long time. I was writing a lot of private blogs for some time but was not thinking of publishing one. Just penning down some observations, experiences and perspectives. One may or may not agree with whatever is written, which is not even the intent here.
Often we do have disappointments in our life. But sometimes we forget to see "The Other Side". As it is being said that there is always a blessing in disguise. We just need to recognize it. There is no one who has never faced failures, rejections, and sorrows in his/her life. But is there always a blessing associated with a disguise?
There comes a lot of situations in our life, when we loose our hope. We start feeling helpless , we just keep scolding our fate and life. But wheel of time goes such a way that few years on the line , when we connect the dots of our life, we find out that those experiences was very important. We realize that those experiences has somehow prepared us for our future life.
All we need is to stop complaining about things. I know, in practical life things affect a lot. And getting out of those things is definitely not an easy task. But what we need to know is that it is not even impossible. I feel if we have a will or determination to get out of things, our gut itself starts preparing us. We just can't keep complaining about our life all the time. This is our life, this is our fate , we have to accept it anyway. Just accept whatever has happened. Just go with whatever is happening. And be optimistic for whatever is going to happen further.
Just believe that things will eventually work out. Something good will definitely come to you. Enjoy the process. Keep praising yourself for becoming a fighter, not a quitter. And just remember "Not all battles are fought for victory, some are fought simply to tell that someone was there on battlefield".
I believed that god didn't blessed me with good height. God didn't blessed me with good looks. I often used to feel inferior because of that. But I knew that i didn't had any choice in this. But now what i am supposed to do with my life, what kind of person i want to be. These are the choices i have to make. So rather than focusing on the things which are not in my control i focused on what was in my hand.
And then i realized that no matter how bad you are going through. No matter what you are feeling. But there is always something which gives us choice. Either to keep crying over the things and question our fate or to focus on our life choices is totally our call.
Enjoy this wonderful story of yours. You are, you were and only you will be the main character of your story. Just like other stories your story will also have lows-highs, ups-downs but eventually there is always a climax at the end. Don't ever forget to write a good climax for your one.
Thanks!
